Whenever a woman says, "my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore," my heart goes out to her. It is incredibly challenging to be in a relationship with someone who bluntly tells you that they don't desire you the way they used to. When you are married to that person it's even more difficult. Many women unfortunately face this dilemma each day and it leaves them questioning not only their own self worth but the depth of their husband's love for them. It's easy to jump to the conclusion that your husband is focused on your appearance, but the issue tends to run deeper than that. His desire for you may be disappearing because of a lack of emotional connection between the two of you.

If your husband has told you that he doesn't find you attractive anymore, consider the current dynamic of the relationship between the two of you. Do you get along as well as you used to? Is your intimate life just as exciting as it was in the early days of the marriage? Or have you two started drifting apart and are finding reasons to spend less and less time together? If you have been struggling to stay connected, that's likely the root of the issue. Your husband may not feel attracted to you because emotionally he's feeling distant from you. That's why you need to focus on rebuilding the bond that you two have shared all these years.

Work on spending more time with your husband. Focus on the qualities about him that you found irresistible when you two first met. Be supportive and loving with him. Show him that you adore him just as much as you did on your wedding day and that you're still the same woman he married back then. Plan some activities together. It doesn't have to be anything elaborate. Even taking a walk each night in the fresh air together can be a bonding experience. You need to help your husband rediscover his desire for you by reconnecting with him on a core emotional level.