I know how it feels to date someone who just won't commit or even make an effort to. You may not know if he is serious about the relationship or if you should just move on, or wait till he makes up his mind to commit to you. But how long can you just wait around for him? You do not want to make the wrong move, so what should yo

Try New Things:

Keep things interesting and passionate. If you are in a serious relationship and either one of these are missing, there is a very high chance that the relationship could go stale. A man will have a hard time committing to you if he is bored. Try talking about new things or going to new places. Don't forget that keeping the passion alive and exciting is also very important. Men need to be stimulated constantly, so do whatever you can to make sure your relationship doesn't fall flat.

Show him you are ready:

Show him that you are ready to take this relationship to the next level and that you are waiting for him to take the next step with you. Be patient and most importantly, do not appear to be desperate. Telling him things like how you will find someone else who will marry you or how you wish you had someone who would come to settle down, he might grant your wish and tell you to find another man! Give him the space and the time to realize that he is ready to commit to you without being pressured.

Show him you are responsible:

Men like to know that they will be taken care of, so show him that you are willing to cook, do his laundry and clean up after him. Remember that a man is just testing you while he is delaying committing. He wants to know if you are able to take care of him and the family that the two of you are going to raise together. Also show him that you can take the reins on his behalf and take good care of your family at all times, especially during his absence. He wants to see if you are able to take the responsibility for yourself and other who are dependent on you.