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Meet Women Even If You're Shy
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There are a lot of shy guys that need help on approaching women, and doing so to get an attractive girl. Believe it or not this is one of toughest things for shy guys, it takes a lot of confidence to walk up to a girl and strike a good conversation. If your sitting there thinking hmm this kind of sounds like me, don't worry its not as hard as you think. Take a few minutes and look at these dating tips and it might just change the way you would have approached a good looking girl.
First Things First P-R-E-P-A-R-E: Worst thing you could do when trying to approach a girl is winging it, which could lead to a "fumble" with words. One thing to always look out for is, her body language, for example if she got her arms crossed and isn't looking to happy steer away, now I'm not saying don't try going for her but at least wait till she cools down, you don't want an awkward confrontation. Now make sure you got a good line when you do approach her, I don't mean those cheesy high school ones, the best opening lines are opinion questions, so she will have to give an answer, which can then lead to a solid conversation. For example, lets say she has a Boston Red Sox shirt on, you can easily strike a long conversation about baseball and how the Red Sox have been playing. This is why it's so crucial to be prepared, because it will eliminate any chance of you stumbling. As you will already have an upper hand on what you want to say thus making you feel more relaxed
Don't Think She's Out Of Your League: Most shy guys tend to be scared if they see a really good-looking girl, don't sweat it you will soon realize that's small stuff to be scared about. Now you really need to pay attention to the advice I'm about to give you, for it will be one of the most important thing you can learn and capitalize on. Now when you see a good looking girl In your head I want you to look at her as if she seems less attractive for example imagine her bald, weird mustache, just make her look goofy. This will make tone her appearance down so you can go into it full force without feeling like your not "good enough" because that is just dopey talk. Your mind is a very powerful thing.
Tell An Interesting Stories: As much as women love talking your ear off, believe it or not they love to hear men tell exciting stories, that really captivates a women's attention. Prepare a couple of stories about anything as long as its exciting nothing dull try to keep up with daily affairs also. And use them when talking with a woman, If you can tell her some good stories she will be all ears...just try not to ramble on to much, let her have some time to speak to.
Don't Hesitate: The worst thing you can do is to let your mind come up with bad situations that could occur from approaching a girl. Once your mind gets going you will end up talking your self out of it, don't do that to yourself and even if you talk to a girl and she's just not digging it don't worry about, plenty of fish in the sea. Last but not least JUST GO FOR IT! Don't stand back and ask your self what if questions. There is still a lot to learn about women and approaching them, but this advice will point you in the right direction.
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Article Submitted On: November 03, 2009
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MLA Style Citation:
Polchow, Chase "Meet Women Even If You're Shy." Meet Women Even If You're Shy. 3 Nov. 2009 EzineArticles.com. 22 Nov. 2009 <http://ezinearticles.com/?Meet-Women-Even-If-Youre-Shy&id=3184225>.
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Polchow, C. (2009, November 3). Meet Women Even If You're Shy. Retrieved November 22, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?Meet-Women-Even-If-Youre-Shy&id=3184225
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Polchow, Chase "Meet Women Even If You're Shy." Meet Women Even If You're Shy EzineArticles.com. http://ezinearticles.com/?Meet-Women-Even-If-Youre-Shy&id=3184225