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Marry Yourself First - The 13 Most Important Questions For Your Best Life
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Here's something everyone can relate to: Your Car.
That wonderful and amazing piece of technology that takes you from one place to another... usually without any difficulty.
And what is one big element the car relies on to get you there?
The tires...those round rubber donuts which "usually" create no problems.
Let's talk about your tires...stick with me here... it'll all start to make sense...I promise!
Think of your life as being a car and your tires as one of the most important dynamics to get you where you want to be in your life.
Each of the tires have an important role, so let's take a closer look at the tires...
Tire #1: The Know YourSelf Tire
This tire consists of your purpose, your values and your vision.
Take the time now to answer the following questions:
Why am I here (purpose)?
Where am I going (vision)?
What's most important (values)?
If this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you're likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.
And THAT would be a HUGE bummer!
Tire #2: The Love YourSelf Tire
This tire consists of the ways you affirm yourself, talk to yourself, talk about yourself and the balance (or lack thereof ) you have in your life.
Answer these questions now:
What good things do I say to myself every day?
How do I celebrate me every day?
How do I love myself every day?
How do I keep myself healthy every day?
Like tire #1, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you're likely - again - to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.
More bummers!
Tire #3: The Believe in YourSelf Tire
This tire consists of your self-confidence, your communication capabilities, and your ability to "Play Big" in life.
Answer these additional questions now:
How do I strengthen my confidence muscle?
How do I expand my communication skills?
How can I play bigger and bigger every day in Life?
Yes, like tires #1 and #2, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, your car will not work properly and you're most likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.
Breakdowns like these are unnecessary and HUGE bummers!
Tire #4: The Guide YourSelf Tire
This tire consists of your boundaries, priority management and stress management skills.
Answer these last questions now:
How do I evaluate my boundaries?
How do I prioritize my life?
How do I manage stress in my life?
I'm sure you're catching on...yes, like tires #1, #2 and #3, if this tire is not properly aligned, balanced or inflated, you're likely to have a breakdown on the Highway of Life.
And another bummer!
NOW, the only other question is: What are you going to do about all this?
Only one answer... Marry YourSelf First!
Do this and you answer all 13 questions and you'll know, love, believe and guide yourself to your Highest Good and Highest Life!
So...what are you waiting for? A Breakdown???
Go get your tire situation straightened out now.
At the very least, answer these 13 questions for yourself... they may be the most important questions you ever ask yourself!
And Marry YourSelf First every day...in every way!
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Ken Donaldson is a licensed mental health counselor; board certified as an addictions professional and clinical hypnotherapist; certified in Rapid Resolution Therapy; and certified as a master relationship coach. Ken has overcome addiction, depression and divorce in his own life to become one of leading authorities on positive mental health, successful relationships and winning the Inside Game of Life. Ken is the best-selling author of the breakthrough life and relationship success book Marry YourSelf First!ฎ Saying "I Do" to a Life of Passion, Power and Purpose. Visit http://www.marryufirst.com for your fee relationship success tips. Ken's many clients have referred to him as a blend of Dr. Phil mixed in with Buddha and Salvador Dali. Marry YourSelf First!ฎ was recently described by a fellow author as "Co-dependent No More" meets "The One Minute Millionaire." Visit Ken's website at http://www.KenDonaldson.com and sign-up for his free life and relationship success e-zine. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Ken_Donaldson |
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Article Submitted On: November 03, 2009
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