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Making Up With the Love of Your Life by Showing You Are Sorry

There are many creative ways to enjoy the magic of making up with your partner. Ensuring that you are involved in a healthy and productive relationship is essential for your physical and mental well-being. When you are ready to move past a disagreement and work things out with your significant other, there are many interesting and creative ways that you can succeed at it. Here, I will provide you with a few ideas that can help you fully experience the true magic that is associated with making up.

1. Let the first aid kit do the talking. There are handy kits on sale at the Dollar Tree. Grab one and stick a sweet note on the kit: "Hi! Can we please patch things up?" Place the kit inside your partners work bag, lunch box or pillow. There are various places you can hide the kit and wait for it to be found!

2. Rely on a camera to send out an invite and to document your date. Have your camera delivered as a package. Include a note inside. You can probably scribble this line, "Can you please give me a second shot? I hope to see you at X." Replace X with the venue, time and day of your proposed date. When the love of your life does not stand you up on the date, put your best foot forward in making the event memorable and pleasant. Take photos of yourselves.

3. If you want to enjoy the magic of making up, go outside and set up a table with some candles and a nice dinner on it. Do not light the candles. Instead, place a flashlight with a note on it in front of the door so that when your partner comes in, they will see it. Put "You truly light up my life. Let me light up yours. Come to the back yard and make sure the flashlight is on!" When they arrive to find you, light up the candles and surprise them with a sincere apology and lovely, romantic dinner.

4. If you have experienced a disagreement with your partner, it is important to consider the cause of the issue. If you find that you are at fault, you should admit it. If you have difficulty expressing yourself in words, write a letter or a poem. While certainly not the most creative or original idea, it works and has been found to be effective for many people.

5. Pull out the photo albums or dig up all those saved pictures on your computer. Using the program called Windows Movie Maker; you can organize pictures of you and your partner and special moments that you have shared. You can then add the song that represents your relationship, burn it on a DVD, and give it to your partner.

These five ideas should get you started, but take note there are many more ways to say I am sorry. Remember that challenges and disagreements are part of every relationship, and each disagreement is a chance for you to appreciate the uniqueness and different viewpoints of the person you love.

Amid the styles that you can employ, the bottom line is really sincerity. When you make your apology, let this sincerity show in your actions. Deep down, your partner will know if you really mean what you're saying or if you're just trying to attract attention with your suave moves and brilliant stunts.

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