You probably get lots of advice on the subject of love, but do you really understand what actually makes a guy fall in love? Do you know how to trigger feelings of love within a guy? Do you sell yourself short when it comes to love? With the right tools and a little luck, you can make a guy fall in love.

It's easy to confuse love and attraction. Attraction is the initial feeling that may or may not lead to love. Attraction is usually based on more superficial things such as the way a person looks or how funny and witty they are. Love on the other hand is based on deeper emotional elements such as friendship, common interests and values, and similar goals and ambitions.

It would be nice if love came as easily as attraction does. It would probably eliminate a lot of the fear and uncertainty that comes with relationships. But making a guy fall in love requires much more than good looks and good feelings. Love takes time and patience.

All men have vulnerabilities, but they usually don't share them very freely. Study your man to find out about his insecurities, his dreams and his goals. Then find ways to support him in his efforts. If you know that he is insecure about something in particular, find ways to give him confidence and reassurance in that area. When he's having a bad day, create a relaxing environment in which he can settle back and forget about the things that bring stress into his life. You want to be his haven from all that.

Men are cautious about entering into a commitment too soon. A man may realize that he is in love with you before he's ready to verbalize his desire for a long term commitment with you. Respect his need to move at a slower pace. He will really appreciate your willingness to take things slow. This shows him that you are not just pushing the relationship for the sake of having a relationship. He'll know that you are in it for him.

When you meet a guy that you like, don't focus on how fast you can get a commitment out of him. Instead give him the chance to fall in love with you at a pace that he is comfortable with.