Are you confused by a guy's behavior when it comes to falling in love? Would you like to have a better idea of what goes on inside the male mind? Are you beginning to feel that you don't understand men at all? If you are
confused by men and love, join the club. Here are a few insights into what makes a guy fall in love.

Women always get accused of having out of control hormones, but this also explains men's sometimes bizarre behavior. For instance, why does a man seem to pull away just when things start to get serious? There is actually a hormonal explanation for this common phenomenon. Just like women, men have a bonding hormone known as oxytocin. This hormone is believed to be responsible for our feelings of love and attachment.

However, men also have extremely high levels of testosterone which is the hormone responsible for his more aggressive behaviors. Testosterone and oxytocin send two different chemical messages to the brain. One tells him to get close and attach while the other one tells him to protect his need for independence. Once you understand this chemical component it's much easier to understand why men send conflicting messages about falling in love.

Men also have a very different concept of communication. Don't take it personally when a man responds to you in short order. For men, communication is about sharing information more so than it is about creating an emotional connection. Men listen for the main points and then respond only to those. They weed out all the other extraneous information so as not to get distracted by it.

So how does a man connect emotionally if not through words? A man's primary form of emotional bonding takes place through actions. Spending time together, making love, participating in rigorous physical activity are all ways that men bond with women and eventually fall in love.

The next time you are confused by a man's behavior consider the possible causes. Hormones and different communication styles are often at the root of conflict between men and women. Once you understand these concepts, it will be much easier to make a guy fall in love.