What is the best way to make a guy fall in love? Should you confess your love first or let him take the lead? Will he get scared off when he knows how you really feel? Are ready to stop guessing and approach the subject of love with more confidence? Making a guy fall in love is not science, but it does involve chemistry.

Men don't usually confuse love with lust. A man knows the difference between a fling and girlfriend material. But women often have a harder time when it comes to blurring the lines between love and lust. In fact, many women believe that lust creates a sort of shortcut to love. The thinking goes that if you give him what he wants he'll give you what you want in return. But this methodology seldom results in a long term relationship.

So if sex doesn't work, what does make a guy fall in love?

Men fall for women who create an intense emotional experience. But hold on, because this is probably not the kind of emotional experience you are thinking of. For women, emotional bonding comes through verbal communication. But for men emotions involve activity and common experiences with an extraordinary woman. And you are that extraordinary woman. You have the power within you to make a man fall in love. You just have to learn how to tap into that power. Use your sex appeal even when sex is out of the question for the time being. Men love the excitement of the unknown, so give him just a little glimpse of what he's in for if he's willing to wait.

But don't rely on seduction alone. Having stimulating intellectual conversation is also a turn on to most guys. They love it when a woman is educated and informed about current events or when she is capable of having a philosophical disagreement. He may not listen to a word you say, but he'll be enamored none the less when you can use words with multiple syllables.

And finally, show him your caring nurturing side. Men are amazed by the ability women have to take care of other people. Whether it's a kid with a skinned knee or an old woman who needs a meal, men are extremely drawn to women who can make sacrifices for the good of others. And he won't mind being on the receiving end of that caring every now and then.

Forget the myth that men only fall in love with gorgeous women. Most men are looking for far more than superficial stimulation. They are looking for a woman of mental, emotional, and intellectual substance.