Is there a book that can tell you how to make a guy fall in love? Is there an expert in the subject you can turn to? Is there a magic secret "love technique" you can use? There are probably hundreds of books on the subject and many people who claim to be experts. There are even techniques you can use. Before you dive into the books, though, just read this short "Make a Guy Fall in Love Primer" and try these techniques first.
The first thing you need to know about love is that it takes time to grow. Men and women are sexually attracted to each other first. If you want to give the flower of love a chance to grow, first keep him attracted to you by not jumping into bed with him on the first date, even if you want to. The reason for this is because guys fall in lust, while girls tend to feel love at the same time as desire and mistakenly think guys do to. Make him wait and take advantage of his desire.
You will know if he feels genuine affection for you. He won't push you too hard for sex and will enjoy being around you no matter what the outcome. When you're with him, do the things that make him smile and laugh with you. Make every occasion a special one. That first affection he feels for you is going to be the seed that grows into love.
As the emotional bonds grow between you, you can safely show him how much you care for him, but don't say it out loud. Keep him guessing about that, but gain his trust and confidence in you as a partner by being his best friend and confidante. Once this is established, you are well on your way to winning his heart.
Finally, you are going to have to make him commit. Even when a guy is obsessed with a girl, it's hard for him to cut his ties to his past and commit himself for keeps. You can't force it, but one good way to make a guy finally stop resisting is to make him realize what he'll lose if he loses you. You may have to do this by taking a vacation without him or telling him you have to study or something else that will make him miss you. Let him know you're taking a break from him reluctantly, but stick with your plan, even if he begs you to be with him.
The most important thing you need to remember is that love is more than a single emotion. It is desire mixed with care, affection, respect and many other of our better emotions. If you want to make him fall in love with you, show him all of your best qualities and bring the best out in him.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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