Do you know how to make a guy fall in love? Do you know the difference between a guy who is in love and one who is in lust? Are you infatuated with him or do you really love him? First you need to know the difference between love and infatuation. Then, if you follow this how-to guide, you can make a guy fall in love with you.
Before guys really fall in love, they fall in lust. You never hear guys talking together about love - they just talk about lust. That's not because they're incapable of love, it's just because guys don't like to admit they have deeper emotions - especially to other guys.
Girls talk about love more easily than guys do. In fact, they talk about love more easily than they talk about lust. That's because girls are generally more emotional than guys. However, girls have so many strong feelings all at once that sometimes they mistake infatuation for love.
Love happens when you feel a bond of mutual caring and trust developing. That only happens over the course of time. There really is no such thing as "love at first sight." There may be lust and infatuation at first sight, but not love. This is the first thing you need to know if you want to make a guy fall in love with you.
When he first meets you, his strongest emotion will be desire. Don't give him what he wants too fast or he'll lose interest in you before he gets to know you. Keep him interested, but first let him get to know the real you and get to know him, too.
Guys fall in love with girls who admire them for their strengths and accept their weaknesses. A guy has to feel like he doesn't have to put on a show of strength all the time in order to impress a girl. He needs to have enough confidence in her to feel that she accepts him as he is. He also needs to feel stronger with her than without her. Then and only then will he allow himself to fall head over heels in love.
Show him that you are that girl, but don't let him feel that you are so in love with him that he doesn't have to chase you. The thing that is going to tip the scales in your favor is to make him feel like he will be losing a great prize if he loses you. Otherwise, he may take you for granted and not see just how lucky he is to have you. If you want to make a guy fall in love, make him chase you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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