Are you having trouble getting your guy to commit? Are you trying too hard to try to convince him that the two of you belong together? Would you like an easier and more effective strategy? If you are struggling to get a commitment from your man, there is a better way. Learn to make a guy commit by helping him focus on what he will gain rather than on what he will lose.

The reason men fear commitment is that they are afraid of losing something very near and dear to them. It's called freedom. When a woman starts talking to a man about commitment, his focus automatically turns to the potential loss of freedom that such a commitment would require.

A more affective strategy than talking about commitment is to show a man through your actions why being in a committed relationship is preferable than floating through life from one woman to the next.

Create a safe atmosphere in which he can let his guard down. Men love being around women with whom they feel relaxed. You can create this type of environment in many different ways. Start by being his friend. Friendship creates a very powerful bond that is not easily broken. When a man feels like he can tell you anything without fear of judgment or criticism, he will be more than willing to open up to you and connect on that deep emotional level that you desire.

Create a sensual environment that he can look forward to. Candle light dinners, wine, soft music, and the promise of physical pleasure are good places to start. Get him thinking about you first thing in the morning and all throughout the day. Notes, text messages, or an unexpected phone call during the day are all good ways to set the tone for things to come. If you can overcome the hurdle of boredom with a guy, you won't have any trouble making him commit.

Create positive, exciting experiences that will give him lasting memories. Creating great memories can be done through experiencing new things or overcoming a challenge together. Be creative and ask for his input about what kinds of activities he likes or wants to try.

When it comes to communication with a man, actions almost always carry more weight than your words. Words are important, but your actions tell a man what he can expect in a future with you. If you set great expectations, he'll have no problem making a commitment.