Do you want to know how to make him truly love you? Do you want to make him commit instead of just keep you waiting? Are you tired of all the dating advice that doesn't really work? Here are some simple dating do's and don'ts that will help you make him truly love you.
Do be yourself. You are an attractive and intelligent woman. That's what attracted him to you in the first place. Have confidence in yourself. You know you are loveable and if a guy can't see that, it's his problem.
Don't try to change yourself just to please him. He is never going to fall in love with you if you try to be someone you aren't. If you do that, he'll either fall out of love with you when he sees you're not the woman he thought you were or he'll see through your act and not respect you.
Do be affectionate and fun. You want him to smile when he's around you. You want him to feel like you enjoy being with him and that you are attracted to him.
Don't be too affectionate. Yes, that sounds like it contradicts the previous "do," but it doesn't. If you are too affectionate, you're likely to scare him away. If you're playfully affectionate but not too personal, it will turn him on and give him the courage to be affectionate with you in return.
Do show an interest in his personal life. If you want to make him truly love you, you will have to show him that his life is interesting and meaningful to you. You especially want to give him pride and feel like you admire him.
Don't worship the ground he walks on. Sure, you admire him and think he's a great guy, but if it even looks like you consider him to be your personal idol, it will either turn him off completely or make him lose respect for you. Either way, it's not going to result in making him fall in love with you.
Do be flirtatious and sexy. All the dating advice columns will tell you to tone down the sexiness and focus on the friendship part of the relationship. This is good advice, but some girls take it way too far. If he just wants a buddy to hang out with, he's probably got lots of male friends who will do just fine.
Don't be too flirtatious and sexy. Yes, it sounds like another contradiction, but it's not. If you dress and act too sexy, he's going to wonder whether it's just him you're after or every guy in town. If you're too flirtatious, you might scare him away.
These are some of the basic do's and don't of romance and love. Put them into practice and make him truly love you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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