"How can I make him love me?" Is that the question you ask yourself every day? "How can I find a guy to love me?" Is this your question? Whether she has a boyfriend already or not, every woman wants to find a guy who will fall in love with her. Do you just have to find the right guy or can you make it happen? Girls ask dating advice columnists, "How can I make him love me?" every day and the advice they give is always the same, but is it right?
One thing the dating advice gurus always say is, "Look your best." That is obviously good advice, but what does it mean? Most of the gurus take a conservative approach and tell you to "wash your hair, put on your makeup and wear your nicest clothes." That's fine, but what they don't mention is that if you want to attract men who will suit you, you should wear outfits that reflect your personality. If you're a Goth, then dress like one. If you're a business woman, then dress appropriately.
When you have your eye on a guy and say to yourself, "I want to make him love me," it's because there is something in his personality that resonates with yours. If you want him to be attracted to you, it is not going to happen unless he sees you as you really are. Men are very tribal. That's why, depending on what group they hang out with, they all dress the same. Beneath the uniform, though, is the individual man, looking for the right woman for him. Find out who he is looking for and dress and act accordingly.
The gurus are right when they say that sexy women turn men on, but you don't need a guru to tell you that. Dressing in revealing clothes will definitely catch his eye, but it's better to do it covertly than overtly. If your breasts are your best physical asset, then make sure he knows they are there, but don't just let them spill out of your top. That tells a guy that a girl wants lots of men, not just one man. You may catch a guy that way, but you probably won't keep him.
The outer you reflects the inner you. They say that love is the meeting of kindred souls. Whether you believe in "soul mates" or not, there is something to the idea. Often, women fail to meet the right man because they try too hard too please every man. Just be yourself and be happy in your own skin. Then, without even trying, you can attract the right man for you and "make him love me."
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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