How do you get a man to fall in love with you? How do you keep him in love with you for good? What mistakes should you avoid if you want to keep from turning your guy away? There are some things women do that will either make a guy fall in love or instantly do just the opposite. As a woman, you really need to know what these are.

The one most important action to avoid is pressure. Trying to force a guy into feeling anything can cause huge problems for a woman. Yes, you're in love and all you want is for your guy to feel the same way; but do not, under any circumstances, push him into professing love for you. This can easily work against you by driving your man away. Men do not like the feeling of being controlled, especially in relationships. If you force him into declaring love for you before he is ready, he might just decide that the whole situation is not right for him and move on to other conquests.

A byproduct of pressure is nagging. If, by chance, you nag him enough and he finally does speak the "L" word to you, will you feel completely satisfied with this? Will it mean that you have made him fall in love with you because you irritated him into it? How much truth does that profession of love really have? Once a man says he loves you just so that you will get off his back, you could easily lose the value of your connection for good. He might fall into the habit of saying he loves you just as a method of keeping you happy, even though it is not offered from his heart. This is dangerous territory to exist in.

The best thing you can do is just be patient and understanding. Men take longer to get serious, so you just need to accept it and wait it out. Hang in there and be the wonderful, fun-loving girl that he knows and he will eventually get to that level of commitment and love that you have already reached. By being patient, you can make him fall in love, and it will be so much more gratifying when he says he loves you all on his own.