Are you in love but don't have a clue on how to make your man commit to your relationship? Do you feel like your devotion is a one way street? Are you tired of wondering when you might see a little progress from your guy? Commitment is a concept many, many men avoid at all costs. Would you like to show your guy how valuable you are to him and make him commit? Keep reading.

You need to concentrate your efforts on yourself. Your focus should be on being the kind of woman that he can't resist. First of all, be active. Carry on with your daily life just as it was before you met him; do things with friends, visit family, continue participating in your favorite hobbies. Don't worry whether he is involved in these activities; enjoy your life and make time for him when you can. Keep your plans and make him work around your busy life if he wants to see you.

This will frequently result in you being unavailable for him. This is a good thing for you. When he can have you whenever he calls, what is the challenge for him? Why should he worry about making any promises to you when he gets everything he wants, usually when he wants it? Rather, stay busy and let him wonder what makes your life so exciting and full. Not only are you having a great time, but his curiosity is peaked and you appear much more interesting to him.

Finally, it might be time to reevaluate your relationship. You want to move forward but you can't make him commit. You are ready to promise fidelity, but he isn't. What are you waiting for? If he is still out there checking out other prospects, why aren't you doing the same? Although you feel deeply for him, he is not ready for you. You are preventing yourself from meeting your own prospects out there, one of whom might be the perfect guy for you.

Get out there and give yourself the chance to meet other men. Who knows, you might just meet a great guy or you might just get that guy of yours to reconsider the situation. You might find that you make him commit simply because he certainly doesn't want to take the chance of losing you to someone else.