Are you wanting to make him commit? Are you ready for your relationship to move to the next phase? Do you want to know the secrets to encourage him? If you are ready to make him commit then you should use these secrets to encourage him into the commitment.

Secret #1. Develop Your Life Without Him.
This may sound funny to many who are wanting to get into a relationship. However, the truth is that you want to develop your life without him so that you are building a life that you can enjoy with or without him. This also lets him know that you don't need him. You should make sure you want him, but not that you have to have him.

Secret #2. Stay Busy.
While you are developing your life you also need to stay busy. This will mean that there will be times that you are busy when he wants you. However, it also gives him a reason to commit to you. With a commitment you would be more committed to him and less to your other activities. You can make him commit because he wants to spend more time with you and feels that that is the only way you will make more room for him in your busy schedule.

Secret #3. Put Him To The Test.
Once you continue to build your life and stay busy you should let him know that you are wanting a commitment. If he doesn't commit to you, but instead continues to date other women you should start dating other men. You don't want to make it so that you are rubbing it in his face, but you do want to let him know that you are dating and enjoying it. Make sure you don't go on about any of the guys or continue on with how wonderful that dates are. But you should go out and have a good time.

These three secrets will make him commit. It is often all the encouragement that he needs when you have your own life and remain busy without him. This makes him want to be a part of all that is happening.