Are you on a rocky relationship with a woman who you just can't seem to understand? Or perhaps you are single and you want to have a stable relationship. In both cases, you want to understand your woman and here are some tips in entering that realm which even the great Sigmund Freud was unable to do: the mind of the woman. Surprisingly enough, although this article is about understanding women, this has more to do with understanding yourself.

Mean What you Say

This is the one most simple things which so many men are unable to do. A lot of guys who cheat on their girl start small by lying about the small things. A woman's trust, once destroyed, can never be the same again so once you tell a big fib, then that will be the first crack in your relationship. Jerry, a friend of mine once lied to his girlfriend about doing over time. Turns out, he was just out playing poker with his friends. Once his girlfriend found out, their relationship started to crumble. She was suspicious of Jerry all the time and it drove him crazy. Why not avoid that by just simply telling the truth? She would understand that you need a boys night out. If she doesn't then she's the possessive type that will strangle the life out of you so you better run now.

Slow Down

Men are usually in a rush to do things and to have them finished. This is not a good thing especially with women. I am talking not just about sex, but about everything. Most men eat dinner faster than women. Imagine how that would feel for her watching you gorge down your dinner. Your passion for quick gratification will leave your woman wanting. Slow down. Even slower than what you think is already slow. I'm am of course, also talking about sex. Women's engines take a longer time to heat up than men's. This is why foreplay is so important.

Listen listen and listen

You seen it in all the chick flick. Oh, wait, you probably don't watch chick flicks. But never the less, if you have seen at least one teen movie, then you would still know that the guy who listens well is the one who gets the girl in the end. Why? Simple, because women want to be understood. They are creatures of emotion. Emotion and feelings are central to who they are, and if you don't listen to what they have to say. The thing is, nobody want to be ignored when they have something to say. Don't you want to be heard if you've got something to say?