Life - The Thing We Cannot Get a Grip On

Life, such an ironic thing it is. You never expect whats going to happen next. That is the complete honest of it isn't it? You think you find your true love and you're 100% sure and it all just crumbles right before your face like it meant nothing more than a mere good time, or memory.

You always want the best to happen for you and anyone you hold dear to yourself. No matter the cost of this happiness you still strive to achieve these goals, of this thing called happiness. Yes I will say I've had my ups and downs of life as well as everyone else has so I'm no different than you are.

Your mind processes things that you never want to think about, you over think things to the fullest and you get yourself into a train of thought in which you find horrifically depressing. This has happened to me in several situations not to the point of self harm but to the point where you just don't want to talk anymore.

You just want to be secluded but not solitary. You only want those who you love around not the extras that cause you your troubles, not the ones who mess with you and make you upset because they know which buttons to press. No arguing just straight up normal conversations about how good life is and your loved ones.

But I'm pretty sure this is what everyone wants every once in awhile. Life and love come hand in hand. There like linked with a patchwork that not even the greatest of tailors could mend together so strongly. You notice that life's outlook is not as good when your love life is not going good.

But, if it is going good your having the time of your life and you feel like you can take on the world without even thinking about it. What I'm saying might be just common sense and just obvious, but with the way life works, people make it look like that there totally oblivious to these simple ways of life.

But love is not the only thing in life. There are so many things that are factored into it that we do not even phantom, like anger? It has a crucial part in life in fact you have to use it in certain situations to obtain happiness believe it or not. Or sadness? Without it life would be extremely bland and we wouldn't hold on to anything.

There would be no fear of losing things, no excitement in taking a risk on asking a girl on a date or looking for that promotion. Really there are so many things that no one could write them all down and just explain them because there would be nothing keeping you there to read it because you have life to live yet still.

You always hear all of those says about life like; "life is short so make the best of it", or "life is full of opportunities", or even "life sucks get used to it" these all are just three small parts of life. When really life is actually all three of those things mixed together with a whole bunch of other concepts that not everyone understands yet. Yes there will be people you hate, or strongly dislike. And there will be people who you love with all of your heart in which you would sacrifice anything for just make them happy. My love of my life would be Andrea Pamela Leland. Shes the reason why I even cease to even try to be of any importance because she gives me those feelings that not a single other person in the world can. She's there for me through anything and feels these same emotions. She's how I get through any of my crises I have in daily life or any part of life itself. Really I couldn't live without her. You'll have tough parts of life but you have to tough it through for your self. For your family.

For that person who means so much to you and you know it could only be them. Make them feel special because as I said before love and life go hand in hand. And actually I might value love to such a high standard that it overcomes the bad parts of life. You might think its crazy but it works. Just think of that thing or person you love and all your problems go away.

When you cant sleep and have nothing else left to do but express yourself you could be astonished to find what you come up with. Its probably how most of the authors who write about philosophy become famous these days to be completely honest. I actually don't doubt that one bit. And what I've learned through life is that happiness is the hardest thing in the world to maintain for a really long period of time. Its possible but unlikely, I don't mean to diminish any hope of happiness by saying that. What I mean is that happiness is very carefully placed in certain hands. That you should be on the look out for anyway to obtain happiness, in anyway shape or form. In fact that is 55% of life happiness. Every single person in this world is in pursuit of it as well as you are and you can think of it as supply and demand, the more the demand the more the cost. And believe me the demand is at its highest these days, with all of these problems in today's society.