f you listen to women talking together you will always here them say; "I want a man that is funny, kind, warm and caring!", while if you ask them what they want from a man in bed is completely different. In my years as a sex therapist I have found that they guys who are funny, kind, warm and caring during sex simply do not have it as often as the more aggressive men. So bearing this in mind I am going to be telling you some tips so that you can become more aggressive during sex but still be the same caring, funny guy in the relationship!

Going Hard Is Not A Bad Thing - Obviously you need to time it properly but going hard is what she wants especially if she is close to orgasm. So if she tells you to go hard then you should know that she really does mean it!

Change It About A Bit - Do not stick to just straight missionary position sex, this will get pretty mundane pretty fast for your lover. All positions allow for different feeling, for example her going on top allows her to be in control which she may enjoy, doggy style allows for deeper penetration and can be seen as a bit taboo.

Use Some Dirty Talk - Dirty talk is one of the most over looked things in sex, many men do not even try to talk dirty to their lovers. Just try it once in a while you never know you may enjoy it yourself, she definitely will!