Making a marriage work usually falls on the wife. That is why a lot of women are finding it hard to sleep because they are constantly thinking how are they going to make their marriage last. But these should not be the case, instead of always thinking why men leave their wives; women should use their energy to make sure it never happen to them.

Statistics shows that almost half of married couples ended in divorced. Sometimes, much sooner than expected, and the ones who are really affected are the children. Usually it was the husband who always walks out of the marriage. So why is it that most men leave their wives?

So we ask ourselves why is this happening to us is. Most married person is a victim of wrong misconception that is why they always ended asking themselves why this suddenly happening is. What most married couple doesn't understand is that they actually both want the same thing in their marriage. Both wants to feel fulfilled and if they are unfulfilled then they will be dissatisfied and sad. These are the reason why men leave their wives.

To avoid misunderstanding, sexual need is not what I am talking about. This is the most common misconception that men should be the only one who is fulfilled while women are not. In truth, our society encourage this, the society allow the man to fulfill their desires while women can only do so until they are married.

Marriage that is not fulfilled will not last. One aspect of marriage that needs to be fulfilled is the feeling of appreciation from their respective spouses. Whether you realize the importance of being appreciated, one thing is sure, we all need to be appreciated. Most especially from the people we love the most.

All men and women need to be love, honored, and respected by their spouse. We all need this to feel special. However, sometimes men feel that they need it the most, when in fact; both women and men need it.

Even though sometimes women prioritize the requirements of their husband more than their own need, this should not the case, and women should not sacrifice their own need just to fulfill their husbands. It must be balance, in order for the marriage to work and last. Instead of thinking why men leave their wives, put your attention in giving your husband's need without forgoing your own basic need as well.