Keep it going - keep him in love. But how can you do this? How can you light his fire? How can you fan the flames and keep it going? What real, practical steps can you take? If you are looking for love and romance, commitment and marriage and a happy relationship, read on. We are going to discuss how to keep him in love.
It goes beyond just being able to attract men. Being sexy will attract men. If you only want a man to be one of your many friends, that can be relatively easy also. But if you want to take it to the next level; if you are looking for a boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate, there will be a little work involved.
It can be compared to a literal fire. A literal fire is pretty easy to light. You take a match and a piece of paper.... well, you know. But if you want it to be a roaring campfire, you have to add the things that will feed the flames. What things do you need for a literal campfire? You would need matches, paper, small twigs, larger twigs and then larger branches or maybe a tree stump. The smaller things would burn easily and cause the thicker, harder to burn items to burn.
It starts with a match. What would be the match that would start the fire of love, commitment and marriage? It would be your smile. Your smile is a huge attraction in the dating world. It is a huge asset in your relationship.
Which kind of friend would you be drawn to more - one that never smiles or one that smiles readily? It is the one that smiles readily, right? Humans are programmed to respond to a warm smile. It lights a little fire in our hearts. If you want to make a guy fall in love with you and if you would like to make him commit to you with all his heart, start that fire with a frequent smile.
A fire that only had paper to burn would quickly burn up the paper and then go out. You do not want that to happen with this relationship, so you need to add more. According to male psychology, what else can you add to keep the fire of his heart burning? The answer is happiness.
Good dating advice says to be a happy person. If you want to make him fall in love and keep him in love, be a happy person. Why is that so necessary?
Have you ever tried to be good friends with someone who was chronically depressed? You want to go out and laugh and have fun, but your friend needs to sit and talk about her depression. Probably, the friendship was based on sympathy rather than a mutual love for each other. Do not expect to have a relationship with a man that is based on sympathy. Be happy; show him how happy his life will be with you in it. Have some positive energy. Be cheerful.
If you can do those things, the fire in his heart will be burning strongly. What can you do to fan the flames more? This is called warm, personal attention. This will keep the romance alive.
Go for his heart. Do these things:
Say his name.
Use his name often when speaking to him. It seems like people are just programmed to enjoy hearing our name. It makes us feel important and special to the person who is saying it. Work his name into the conversation every time that you can while making it sound natural.
Look at him.
Look at him when he walks into the room. Look just long enough so he knows that you were looking. Look him in the eye when you are speaking to him. Caution - Do not stare. You do not want him to think that you have some emotional problem.
Touch him.
We are also programmed to respond favorably to a gentle touch. So, when you are speaking to him, give him a gentle touch on the arm or hand. Not too often or it will be intrusive.
Ask him questions.
This will make him feel that he is special to you.
Do these things for the rest of his life and you will make that fire in his heart burn for the rest of his life. This will keep him in love.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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