A marriage crisis does not happen overnight, rather the problems build slowly over time. Many times, the one spouse thinks everything is going fine in the relationship until the other spouse announces that he or she wants a divorce. Other times, both of you know there are problems, but one of you may have no desire to resolve anything. But is there hope to save a marriage when only one of you is interested in reconciliation? Yes, in most cases, just about any marriage can be saved.

No matter how terrible your situation may seem, always remain positive, do not panic, and stay calm. Your emotional well being is essential for your own health, but also for your marriage as well. As difficult as it may be, try to avoid negativity in your thoughts, actions and speech.

Evaluate where you think the problems may lie and discuss what areas need to be worked on. Many times, marriages end due to simple neglect. We let our lives with work, children, family, household chores, and everything else get in the way of our relationship only to see everything crumble. If this is the case, start doing whatever is necessary to spend time together without interruptions. You may only be able to "find" a few minutes, but those moments will start you on the path of renewal.

If you discover the problems lie in other areas, still try to follow the same process and talk about possible solutions. Keep the conversation calm and really listen to each other. Shouting, screaming, and slamming doors will not lead to a resolution. Be open and honest about what is needed in the relationship.

If you feel that your situation is too far gone or your problems are much more serious to benefit from the above suggestions, please realize that there is still hope to save a marriage.