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Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2
By
Doug Young
and Christina Young
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Cheating on your spouse or your partner is one of the biggest mistakes you could ever make. It can cause so much pain to your partner and there's a very good chance it will destroy your relationship. Cheating will also indirectly hurt your children as well as the other people around you.
So the question is, 'Is it still possible to salvage your relationship with your partner after you've cheated on them?' The answer to this is YES and it all starts with asking for forgiveness.
Here's the next 5 of 10 tips on the best way to dig your way out of the hole you've dug yourself into:
6. Apologizing Is Not A Sign of Weakness
There are people who are hesitant to apologize because they don't want to show that they are weak. But in the case of relationships, apologizing is not a sign of weakness. Instead, apologizing means that you care about your partner as well as your relationship.
7. Ask For A Second Chance
When apologizing, you may want to point out that you want to ask for another chance and assure your partner that this will be the last time something like this happens. And if you are given that second chance, make sure that you thank your partner, you show your appreciation and show your commitment to them and to your relationship.
8. Be Honest
When apologizing, make sure that you are honest about what you did and why you did it. This will give you both the best possible basis on which to move forwards together.
9. Don't Try To Pass The Blame
Some people tend to apologize then follow it with blame. 'I am sorry for what I did but I did it because you are like this and you are like that.' When you apologize, take responsibility and just apologize for your own errors and faults.
10. Don't Make excuses
'I only did it because of this and that.' When apologizing, don't make any excuses or try to justify what you did. Remember that when it comes to cheating and infidelity, there is no reason or excuse in the world that can justify your actions.
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Article Submitted On: April 15, 2008
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MLA Style Citation:
Young, Doug, and Author: Christina Young. "Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2." Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2. 15 Apr. 2008 EzineArticles.com. 22 Nov. 2009 <http://ezinearticles.com/?Infidelity-How-To-Ask-For-Forgiveness-If-Youre-The-Dirty-Rat-Who-Cheated-Part-2&id=1111182>.
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APA Style Citation:
Young, D., & Christina Young, A. (2008, April 15). Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2. Retrieved November 22, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?Infidelity-How-To-Ask-For-Forgiveness-If-Youre-The-Dirty-Rat-Who-Cheated-Part-2&id=1111182
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Chicago Style Citation:
Young, Doug, and Author: Christina Young. "Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2." Infidelity - How To Ask For Forgiveness If You're The Dirty Rat Who Cheated - Part 2 EzineArticles.com. http://ezinearticles.com/?Infidelity-How-To-Ask-For-Forgiveness-If-Youre-The-Dirty-Rat-Who-Cheated-Part-2&id=1111182