It's not right that you're sitting there thinking 'I think my husband hates me'. Is it a thought that seems to be permeating your every thought?

It must be tough for you. In fact I know it is.

You see, I was in your exact position for...well...too long. Years too long! And the fact is that my wife was actually in that same position herself, thinking "I think my husband hates me". It still breaks my heart to think of her ever having those thoughts to be honest.

The Truth About What's Going on in Your Husbands Mind

I can tell you as a husband, that it's probably not true. It may certainly seem true. There may be looks of anger, feelings of resentment, and even an overall feeling of disgust coming your way.

These were the things going back and forth in my marriage. And looking back on it, I was probably giving those exact vibes, but deep down I knew that I was actually still very much in love with my wife.

I actually was receiving those same exact feelings of resentment and hate coming toward me. Actually maybe a little stronger and convincingly... LOL.

I had to actually get past these feelings myself. The funny thing is that what I did, what I feel is the secret solution to this, may seem quite backwards.

What I Did to Turn My Marriage Around

What I actually did was stop caring if those feeling were coming at me, and started on a trek to improve myself. I was on a trek of relentless improvement.

Here's why. I knew that I had to like myself, and at that time I didn't like myself too much. I decided that I would become a person that I actually liked.

The funny benefit was that I started to become the person that a lot of other people began to like more as well. Even my wife!

Now whether or not this was the time that she began to stop thinking "I think my husband hates me" or not I'm not sure, but it was definitely very helpful and part of the beginning of a new life for the two of us.