You can turn the tables to get the upper hand yourself this time! Doing this will make your ex practically come crawling back in your arms, missing you like mad You will have the ability to see them make changes on their own. Changes that you have been wanting to see in them, probably many of the top reasons you have been fighting over, right?

This time, instead of wasting time worrying if you made the right decision, no matter how you feel, you have to "keep the faith" and just keep telling yourself you made the right decision to break up and not live like that anymore. You have to be able to stick to your guns on this, but how?

You have to resolve that no matter what, you will do any and all you can to eliminate as much contact with your ex as possible. This is the start to getting your ex to start missing you! You can not initiate any contact with them yourself. And no passing messages of any kind to your friends to give to your ex.

When in a split with your ex and you are asking, how do I make my ex miss me, the only way the possibility of that even happening is if they stop seeing and hearing from you, right? Simply and bluntly put, you need to give them the chance to miss you. If you run into the ex, which you need to be prepared for, no matter how much you plan ahead, keep it very pleasant, but very short and sweet, then move on.

How long you do this for depends, but at least the first few weeks. Again, you need to give your ex the chance to miss you, to wonder about you. Let them know with your smile, your head held up high, your actions more than your words, that you are doing great and ready to get on with your day or evening without them.

This is where you really can start to drive the curiosity meter up in them towards you! Now, in a perfect world, lets say you don't run into them? Please let it not be because you are playing the role of wounded recluse sitting on the couch alone. To really get your ex boyfriend or girlfriend missing you, you need to be going out, doing your own thing with others, highly visible so word gets back to your ex.

Word that you seem to be doing a whole heck of a lot better now that your are not with them. That not only do you seem like you could care less either way, but your actions really show you seem to be so much more happy to be without your ex anymore. Talk about a sure shot way to get your ex attention and have them missing you! Just be sure you are prepared when they do attempt to contact you that you play hard to get at first. You don't want to take them back just yet.

In fact, you want them to pay a bit for what they have been doing but you don't want to be mean about it. You have to play that game just right so your ex will start to see the error of their ways, in a positive light that is good for them and you, of course, love needs to be the basis for any relationship to really be true, and change.