In the depths of despair, are you? Lost all hope, tearing your hair out and yet no solution offers itself to you? Are you on the verge of insanity, thinking there's no way the bother of you will be together ever again? You have probably started planning something incredibly wild; some scheme, some plan to get him back in your life. If you are preparing to don a superwoman cape, let us assure it won't break the ice with your man. Before you actually lose it, allow us to offer a few humble solutions which are guaranteed to make your ex-boyfriend come back to you, that you in only a couple of weeks!

Trust us, he does not want to push into becoming something that you are not at heart; he has no real wish to change you that much. Unpredictable behavior toward him is quite unwelcome. If you've never had a drink in your life, this is not the time to get drunk and try to grab his attention. You will either make him angry at your strange behavior or laugh at what he will think a ridiculous performance.

After all is lost, you will definitely be miserable and down in the dumps. It takes a lot of bravery to overcome this state but brave is what you need to be. Get on your feet and don't let this incident pull you down. This will help you to think of strategies to get him back into your life again. You must always believe that there is nothing that you need to change about yourself; you don't need to become a different woman to grab his attention since this will lead him to think you are 'fake' and pretentious, which is always a bad thing. Your ways to win him back need not be so drastic and extreme.

Introduce Regular Correspondence And Communication:

Communication is the primary and most important factor in any relationship. In order to have him back you need to find out his feelings and emotions and whether he is still in love with you. Trust us it is not the same for men and women when it comes to interaction. A guy will not want to lose touch even with his ex-girlfriend. If your guy still has feelings for you, there is no way he will not take your call. Keeping this in mind, keep up efforts of regular communication by calling or sending him regular emails. But remember, men do not like a blatantly confrontational situation. He will not appreciate it if you launch an attack on him about the issue right at the beginning of a conversation. Slow and steady always wins the race.

Let Him Learn To Trust And Depend On You:

This being an extremely crucial step, you need to tread with caution. By this time, you two are already conversing regularly and you know what his feelings about you are. You can even safely say that you are fairly knowledgeable about the issue at hand. At this change, you can make some alterations in your behavior that he will like but make it known that the changes are for his benefit. At this point, you may find out the problem is of his making in which case speak to him clearly and frankly, without being rude or negative. But at no point should you appear anxious to get him back. Keep your cool and be nice and he is sure to make some effort and understand your perspective. Be a little romantic now; hold his hand and tell him how you feel about him. You will notice the difference in him immediately. Your man is sure to make an about turn and come right back into your arms.