Have you found the last few weeks or months hard to cope with, especially as you are now alone? Are you looking for the most successful ways to finally win your ex wife back? Great! This article will show you exactly how the majority of people do it!

#1 Stop feeling sorry for yourself

The first thing most people do wrong is start to feel sorry for them and start to get down about life in general. The majority of people will then become depressed and let's face it - no one is interested in getting back together with someone that is depressed or needy!

#2 Let them know the facts

You need to ensure that your wife knows the facts about what you feel inside. You need to let her understand exactly how important she is to you and exactly how important this relationship is to you as well, this will help her make a decision!

#3 Arrange to cut off!

You need to cut off and not contact her at all. Don't phone her, text her or email her on the regular basis. Allow her to be starved of your company and she will want you that little bit more!

#4 Arrange to meet

This is usually the crunch time for most couples. You need to arrange to meet and analyze your relationship together. Explain what you think went wrong, but obviously emphasize the good points and what you can change.

Warning: Remember that relationships take hard work, and learning to win your ex wife back is not an over night procedure!