Finding a way to win back your love can be simple thing if you are serious. You must be willing to start using your head and stop following your heart.

Now! I know your heart is certainly telling you to drop everything, stalk your ex and whether they want to or not, make them listen to what you have to say. Because after all you guys shared so much, that should be enough. Right? Your ex just has to be able to forget about everything that went wrong once you express to them how much you miss, love and want them back. Hey they should take you back right on the spot, right? Not! That's just your heart talking.

Ok, so your head, on the other hand, would never lead you to doing any of this. What would your head say? "Get a life!" "Back off!" "Get a grip!" "Take your time!" Trust me; listen to your head that's the best way to win back your love.

So don't take up time lurking in the bushes trying to accidentally bump in to them. Just leave your ex alone for now. No call, no mushy love notes. In fact make no attempt to contact them what so ever.

What? Do you want to look desperate? Don't become a pain in the butt to that person! Your ex won't even want to be around you let alone take you back. The key is to allow your ex to wonder where you are and why they haven't seen you, what you have been doing with your time. The rarer a diamond, the more value it holds. Be rare! Sure enough your ex will want to hear from you and see you. That, my friend, is the best way to win back your love.

Now I know; your ex has been your best friend all this time, your confidant. Sorry, the next problem you have you are just going to have to figure out how to solve it yourself, without your ex. You can't call on your ex as you have up to now. You'll be very proud of yourself by doing so. And guess what? Your ex will see that you don't need him or her. Bingo! Them more you do those things that your ex did for you on your own, the better you'll feel about yourself and then you will see that you don't really need your ex. Who is sorry now? Not you! You are surely on the road to win back your love.

Being calm and rationale is the key to the art of being able to win back your love. This is when your ex will respect you and give you the time of day. You must calm the flame of the passion in your heart. Not allowing it to influence you will ultimately help you to win back your love.