Are you trying to figure out how to win back your ex boyfriend's heart again?  This may sound like a very daunting task.  But if you really think that your relationship is worth saving there are certain steps that when strategically done can actually increase your chances of getting back together with your boyfriend.

Winning your boyfriend back requires your commitment and determination.  I know how much you want to be with him right now but you have to learn to control yourself and avoid any contact with him.

This is more important if he has made it clear to you that he does not want to see or talk to you.  If you try to call him and overwhelm him with text or email messages then you will come off as desperate and immature.

If you keep on pleading to him and begging him to come back to you, he will see you as a burden to him.  But if you act with calmness and your responses does honor to you, your ex boyfriend will find you more appealing and respond to you with admiration at how strong your character as a woman is.

You don't know it yet but this is actually how the psychology of every human being works.  You have to trust that there is really a science that works behind all this.  If you stop trying to call him just to hear his voice your boyfriend will start to wonder what's going on and shift his interest on you once more.

When this happens be sure that you are at your best.  You have taken care of yourself well physically and emotionally.  Simply be attractive inside and outside.  If he thinks that you have moved on and are having a good fun life even without him, he won't be able to help it but start to wonder if he did the right thing leaving you.

These are the first steps you need to do if you really want to win your ex boyfriend back.  It does sound very hard to do initially but if you really want to save your relationship you have to commit yourself.  Gather up some strength to take control of your life and own his heart back again.