Hello - Today I want to talk about the topic of "How To Win Back Love." I feel that too many people are doing this all wrong. They feel that in order to get back an ex, one must relentlessly and aggressively chase them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Do you want to know how to win love back? Pay close attention to what I am about to tell you in this article.

Initially you must understand that you do not want to be in hot pursuit of your ex if you really want to know how to win back love.

There are way too many guys who feel that they must always be running after their ex's. They are continually texting, calling at odd hours of the night and day, and even go far as to stalk their ex girlfriend. And, they feel as if they must send gifts and flowers.

This is not, not, not what you need to do! It will only make you look desperate. You do not want to come across as poor pitiful me type - instead - go for the alpha male image. When you appear needy and desperate, your ex is liable to play head games with you. She'll agree to meet you somewhere and not show up. She'll act as if she is interested, only to show total indifference the next time.

And, the further you go with her, the more games she'll play. How to win love back? Not with head games!

Turn the tables on her - make her come crawling to you instead of you crawling to her.

At such opportunity that you find yourself in a group that includes her - ignore her. Flirt with every girl but her; paying special attention to the one girl you know to be a rival of your ex. When you make a special attempt to ignore your ex you will make her want you back. This will bring back memories of all of your charms - only you have used them on someone else and not her.

Want to know the one sure way to make your ex girlfriend jealous? This is one of the best tricks for how to win back love. Go on a date with one of her close friends. In fact, ask your ex in a text, "I would like to have your opinion on something - now that we're just friends. Where would you suggest I take Helen to eat after the movies on Friday?" This will surely make your ex jealous and is another trick on how to win love back.

Don't want to play games? There is another way that may help you win love back. Try this - be happy. Every girl likes to date a happy guy. In this way you are working on you and not putting all of your focus on her and you will stand a much better chance of getting your ex back.

Do something for you. Do something you never had time for before - hang with your friends, work out at the local gym, meet new people. Try dating. It won't take long to realize you can be happy again, even if at first you were faking it.

Either way, get her back or not, you move on and you become a happier person.