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How to Spot Cheaters

Expert Author Amy Seer

When you are in the dating scene you will want to stay clear from becoming involved with a potential cheater. There are many ways that you can spot a cheater. People tend to have a hard time completely hiding a personality flaw. While they may be able to make their flaws be less obvious; there are always signs that you can spot. While not a single act by itself can mean that someone will make an unfaithful partner, a few of them together can be red flags.

Pay attention to your date's demeanor. Watch how they interact with other women while you are on a date with them. One way that you can spot a cheater is to admit to yourself when he is being a little too friendly with other women when all of his attention should be focused on you. If he wink's at other women as they walk by, or looks them up and down as if he is checking them out, this is a sign that he may not make the most faithful partner. This is also very rude and it puts you in an uncomfortable spot.

Another way that you can spot a cheater is to pay attention to his phone habits. A person that is upfront and has nothing to hide shouldn't mind talking on the phone in front of you. While it would be rude for them to hold an entire conversation in front of you, it still lets you know that they aren't hiding anything. By answering the phone and walking away from you, they are showing that they don't want you to hear the conversation. You will want to ask yourself why they would mind you being able to hear what is being said. This can be a sign of a potential cheater.

One of the easiest ways to spot a cheater is if they keep way too much information about themselves private. While it's ok for a person to not want to divulge their entire life history to you, they shouldn't mind you knowing basic information about them. You can spot a cheater right away if the person you are dating doesn't want you to know where they work or live. This is a huge red flag that they may have a girl friend already, or worse even, they could be married. If you encounter this kind of behavior, the best thing to do is end it or get to the bottom of why they are so secretive.

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