There's something you need to know before you start learning how to save a marriage. You need to know if you really have a snowball's chance in you-know-where of getting it done. Here's a quick quiz you can use to assess whether you have it what it takes to save your marriage. Hopefully, you'll pass with flying colors.

QUESTION ONE: Do you really believe in this marriage?

This is a hyper-critical question. If you are lukewarm on your relationship and don't really know if you think it's that important to save it, you're incredibly unlikely to be able to stop a divorce. You need to feel that special connection and to recognize the potential of your marriage to develop into something strong, stable, loving and wonderful. If you don't believe it's worth saving, you probably aren't a good candidate to stave off eventual divorce.

QUESTION TWO: Do you believe in yourself?

Please notice that the question is about you--not your spouse. That's important. Did you know that one dedicated spouse can get set a process into motion that will save a marriage? That's right, it doesn't take two to tango on this one. So, you need to ask yourself whether you believe in yourself enough to take a stand for love and for your relationship. Do you believe that you can bring yourself to take action? If so, you are in a good position to figure out how to save a marriage. If not, you'll find it difficult to stop divorce until you do believe in yourself.

QUESTION THREE: Are you willing to take some advice?

If you plan on saving your marriage through sheer force of will and a combination of hunches and scattered advice, it's going to be difficult. This is not the time to fly by the seat of your pants. If you're not willing to expand your knowledge base and to change your perspective to stop your divorce, you're not going to get a passing grade on this quiz. If, on the other hand, you are ready to take advantage of experience, wisdom and knowledge in the form of a smart blueprint that will show you how to save a marriage, you can stop your divorce.