Dating other women is great for your self confidence

Ok - dating other women isn't going to save your marriage by itself but it can work wonders for your confidence and self esteem if you are going through a breakup. A boost to your confidence like this will be a key part in making up with your Ex down the line once you've had some time apart.

When your wife breaks up with you and she means it then the best thing to do is to agree with her and accept that your marriage has ended. This is the essential first step towards getting your wife back. You have to end the relationship before you can start afresh. This can be a far more effective way of saving your marriage than trying to avoid the break up itself.

The cooling off period

If you tell your wife that she's right then the breakup will go much more smoothly and it will stop her from getting any further away from you than she already is. Once that's over you must spend time on yourself. Get your life back and build your confidence. This is where talking to other women comes in.

How to talk to women and build your confidence

If you've been with your wife for any length of time then you may have got out of practice when it comes to dating or talking to other women. Don't worry because it's like riding a bike - it will soon come back to you and it does get easier. Just treat them like anyone else you might meet and make a point of saying something to them.

What to talk about

You can talk about practically anything you want but don't try to be clever or inappropriate. Try to find some common ground. If you are in a hotel or an airport then ask her where she comes from and where she is going. If you are in a mall ask her about something she is buying because you might be interested in it yourself.

Use any excuse you can think of to speak to her. Most of the time the conversation will be brief and polite but often you'll find that she wants to talk more with you. Yes it surprised me too.

Dating women boosts your chances

If you talk to enough women then sooner or later one of them will agree to have coffee with you and even go on a date. You won't believe what a confidence booster this can be when it happens and when you've done it once it gets easier to do it over again. It won't be long before you start to realize that you can live without your ex wife.

How to save marriage when you no longer need to

The best time to consider approaching your ex with a view to getting back together is when you realize that you don't need her any more. If you still want to get back with her then now is the time to do it. You will need to prepare and have a plan of what you are going to do and how you are going to do it. There is a right and a wrong way to do this so don't mess it up.