How to pick up older women? This is a common question asked by men across different age groups but the question is most common amongst young males. Cougar women have more experience in life and in the bedroom and can show you mind blowing experiences on many levels.

The problem is that you may not know how to pick up older women and end up living a life filled with quiet desperation hoping and wishing that the right women will come along but the reality is that if you do not take any action you will not see any results. Because of this you may be making the same mistakes over and over again and wondering why you are not attracting the type of women you want to be with. In this article I will outline two different tips you can use to pick up an older women.

One useful tip when picking up a cougar woman is not too over compliment too much. These women have plenty of experience with men who use canned lines to get into their pants. Your approach has to be original and you can ask questions about her personality and life instead of giving her a generic compliment about her looks or her eyes. This is important to remember because cougar women will see right through your fake compliments and your value with her will go down.

Another good tip to remember when dealing with cougar women is to let her take the lead at times only because she is more experienced and may show you a better time if she is in a position of leadership. However do not let her dominate all the time because you may come off as a push over. Instead make sure she has control about 75% of the time because this will result in a mutually satisfying situation for both parties.