How to Meet Beautiful Women - The Myths Versus the Realities

There are countless articles on web pages about how to meet or attract beautiful women. However, it seems that these articles have been written by men, especially men who seem to be out to 'conquer' as many women as possible. This advice is fine if your sole purpose is to spread yourself around and you have decided that the targets of your overtures are women who lack the brains and self-confidence to understand your underhanded methods. Now, if it is a smart, quality woman you are after, someone who you can see yourself spending time with and showing off to your friends, these tricks are probably going to make you look like a prize idiot or worse. So what is a regular guy supposed to do? Firstly, you need to forget most of the myths you have about beautiful women and treat them like the real people that they are.

Myth No. 1. 'All Beautiful Women Are Used to Being Approached by Men.'

In reality, due to men's inherent fear of being rejected, normal guys rarely (if ever) approach very attractive women. In most guys' minds, beautiful women are out of their league. Too often, they are considered a 'score' for really arrogant men who aren't really interested in them as people. It's a fact that most women, including the really attractive ones, really just want to meet someone normal who makes them laugh. So be normal, friendly and say something nice about what she is wearing. Strike up a normal conversation and see where it goes.

Myth No. 2 'All Beautiful Women Have a Bitch Factor.'

A typical conversation between man and beautiful woman often includes some attempt to deflate her assumed 'bitch factor', presumably designed to bring the woman down to the man's level. This usually only results in making the man look pathetic and lacking in self-confidence. And to a quality woman, lack of self-confidence is a real turn-off. Before you start talking to a woman, assume she's a really nice person and speak to her in a way she deserves. Women are more likely to respond well to genuine warmth.

Myth No.3 'If I Appear Uninterested and Aloof, She'll be More Interested.'

Here's another really dangerous one. Because more often than not, you'll just come across as a jerk. No woman ever wants to suffer the indignity of spending time with a cold uninterested man. And don't ever hand a woman your phone number and ask her to call you. It's really lame. The best thing to do is to appear interested. Ask for her phone number and when she gives it, call her!

Myth No. 4 'Beautiful Women are Interested in Outward Signs of Success.'

Talking about yourself in a way that is designed to impress, i.e, your university degree, your expensive car, your high-paying job will at least make you appear boring and, at worst, conceited. It's better to ask her about her interests, jobs, friends etc. Too often, in an attempt to 'win' the woman over men forget to treat her like a person who has her own ideas, likes and dislikes. A woman doesn't like to be thought of as a commodity.

So now you should have a better understanding of what to do when a cute girl is in your midst. So go out there and knock 'em dead. If you meet a beautiful woman and she does come across as aloof, conceited or an airhead, she is not a quality woman and you should move on. You may also want to consider that there are some super average-looking girls out there.

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