Getting a man to commit can be very difficult for most women. Before you get too nervous think about your boyfriend and how he treats you. Is he a sweet guy who likes to offer you all his love or is he the kind of guy that always needs his space, lies, and yells. If you have the latter guy, you need extra help. Either way, I am going to give you some insight into the male mind so you can figure out how to get him to commit.

First, realize that most men are more relaxed and not as paranoid as you. I know that sounds bad to say, but it's just the way things are. I know many women who are scared that the boyfriend they've had for 5 years is going to leave them unless the men propose marriage. Men have a lot going on in their lives, but in some cases, they are scared to make the final leap. If you really want him to commit, tell him you just want to get engaged. You can say that you really want to be a fiance for a while.

Another great trick is to place a ring on your ring finger so other men think your married. When a guy comes to hit on you, tell him your engaged, and tell your boyfriend what happened. Most men will feel bad that they have not proposed because men will not hit on married women. Don't get me wrong, some men don't care and will hit on anything that moves, but for the most part, men will back off.

Finally, men are very difficult to deal with. You have to hold back some of your attention to make sure he stays longing for you. Start many different activities so you have less time with him. If you've ever complained that he doesn't spend enough time with you, he's going to get a taste of what it feels like. If you hold back some of your attention by spending time doing charity or some other hobby, he will intensely want more attention from you. Don''t act like you're happy about avoiding spending time with him. Act as if you really want to be with him as well, but you just don't have the time. Your goal is to make him realize how much he is taking you for granted.

I hope these tips will help you. The key to remember is that some men do need a push. If you have a guy who is angry and doesn't treat you nice, you will find that this guy will either never marry you or treat you poorly if he does. Stand your ground, be strong, and realize that you do have the power.