From your heart of hearts you are convinced that you are still very interested in your ex. You really desire for your ex to start talking to you again. You desire your estranged love live to be reborn.

It simply means you have a large heart big enough to forget about the past and build bridges where there are breeches (good human quality!)

But how do you go about getting your ex to start talking to you again? Should you go begging; should you send emissaries, should you bombard your ex with calls or specially composed text messages (you know what I mean)?

The best way to get your ex to start talking to you again is to make the approach subtly, that is, without appearing to do so. You may ask why. It is because it will help you keep your self respect and your pride intact.

You don't need to throw away your pride all in the name of getting your ex to start talking to you again. Every one need a measure of pride anyway.

Don't call your ex, don't visit him or her, don't beg him or her and don't send emissaries. It will erode your self-worth, dignity and pride.

Instead start doing things that will make you likable. Improve on your looks, mix up with friends especially opposite sexes. It will awaken jealousy in your ex and by this you are already sowing the seed of attraction.

By the time he or she also discovers that you don't call again, you will discover that your ex will be the one doing things to attract your attention. That call or visit from him or her is surely around the corner. Someone said the best way to get hold of and keep what is yours is by letting go of them because they will come back to you. The best way to get is to let go.