Don't you ever be surprised if your ex doesn't want to talk to you immediately after a break up. After a break up, tensions are usually high between couples and such hostile reaction from your ex can be quite understandable But you can get your ex to come calling and wanting to have you back again!

You wonder how? Then spare yourself sometime and ride with me as I lay bare before you how to make your ex miss you so badly that he or she will want you back at all cost.

First of all stop those incessant calls. Allow time to help with the healing process. It is a well known fact that time helps in healing emotional wounds. So leave your ex alone for now. The first thing that will happen is that your ex will start missing your incessant calls!

But while this is happening don't just sit on your fanny (I beg your pardon) doing nothing else. Get busy. Associate with your environment, move about town, enjoy life, raise your standard as a person. Let mother nature do some beautifying work on you. Sun bath some and get some sun tan, generally make yourself attractive and desirable.

You can be sure that the grapevine will communicate to your ex on your new 'facelift'
and you can be sure your ex will be so much curious to come see for him/herself. Don't be surprised if your ex's curiosity push him/her to your door step.

Even when your ex show up don't be too quick in taking him/her back. Leave your ex to sweat it out some while maintaining your attractiveness and desirability. Don't make your self too available, try forming 'high class' for a while longer. Your ex will miss you so badly that he/she will be willing to do practically anything to have you back. After that your ex won't like to let you slip again!