What makes a guy fall for you? Why is it so difficult to build a lasting relationship with a guy? What will it take to make a guy who is lusting after you love you? Here's the grim reality: it's relatively simple to get a guy into bed with you. It's much harder to win his heart. Yet, there are some proven ways to make him fall for you. Read on to find out how.
Lust develops sooner than love
Lust is easy-it flares up quickly, often naturally, and burns hot and fast. A strong, lustful hunger between two people often leads to sex. It is biologically established that women form emotional attachments to men during sex. Men do not have that same reaction. For them, sex without love is easy. Love takes serious work, and often men would rather do less emotionally strenuous activities-like have sex with no strings attached.
For men, lust doesn't necessarily mean love
If you want to make a guy fall in love, you will have to begin by understanding that lust has little to do with true emotional attachment. The best thing you can do to encourage an emotional bond with him is to delay having sex until you've had a chance to build a true relationship with him.
If sex enters the relationship too soon, it tends to become the man's sole focus at the expense of an emotional connection. If you are interested in building a loving, meaningful relationship, it is important to not rush into sex, especially while the relationship is growing.
Become his friend first
In the early stages of the relationship, the best way to form an emotional bond with a guy is to become his best friend. Find out what his interests are and pursue them with him. When he wants to talk about his day, listen with an open mind and open heart, trying to withhold judgment whenever possible. If you work on forming a friendship first, the sex will happen naturally, and it will be better for both you and him.
By understanding the difference between lust and love, you are one step closer to making him fall for you. You can put these techniques to work right away, and soon enough you will be the object of that special guy's love.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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