After suffering a heartbreaking breakup, you think that true love is over for you. The man that just told you he needed some time to himself and wanted to put the relationship on hold for awhile is the only man for you, now he is gone. This thought keeps running through your mind but they might not be true. You can become part of his life again and make him crazy in love with you. All that is needed is some special tactics to make him see his mistake.

Right now you need to stop crying and being desperate. If your ex boyfriend said he needed a break, give him a break. Do not try to force yourself on him, this will only make him desperate. Desperate to get away from you as far as he can. You want just the opposite effect. Make him want to be with you again. When you stop thinking with your heart and begin thinking with your head, it will be quite simple to get your ex boyfriend back and make him crazy in love with you again.

All you have to do is give him some space and time to think. During this time you need to get busy. If the beginning of your relationship was like a fantasy land full of happiness and love, you need to recreate that fantasy land. Think back to the way you were when you first met this man of your dreams that you just lost. What kind of person were you then and how have you changed? Go look in the mirror. Have you gained some weight? How about your hair and the rest of your appearance? Your personality has probably changed without you even noticing it. But your ex boyfriend has noticed it and he wants the girl he fell in love with back. So give him that girl back and you will get your ex boyfriend back.

You were more free back then and probably a lot more fun to be with. Maybe you have been pushing too hard to get him nailed down for good. You became too serious and wanted things to develop too fast. Stop pushing and be the free happy girl he met again. He fell in love with you once and he will fall in love with you again if you become that person again.

One other thing, when you get your ex back, forgive and forget. This breakup was just a small bump in the road of a happy and love filled life you can have with your man. Do not let anything that has happened intrude on that happiness.