The easiest part of a relationship is breaking up, but many guys don't know how to Get A Girl Back. I know your first ideas may have been to shower her with attention, send her gifts, flowers, and a barrage of text messages or phone calls. The problem with this is that it doesn't work normally. I'm going to explain a few things you need to know before you try to get your girl back, so please just try to have an open mind and take my considerations seriously because they have been proven to work time and time again.
Figure out and Understand What Caused the Breakup
First, you need to come to terms that you can agree on with her. As a man it can be difficult to apologize when you are wrong but this is something that needs to be done for healing to take place. If you really want her back just swallow your pride for now. Apologize for what you have done and say that you will promise to work on it to avoid future problems. Do not say this unless you are sincere about it of course. If you plan on hurting her more you might as well stop trying to get her back right now.
Give Some Space
Try to be friends. Give her power over what the next move will be. You don't want her to think you are desperate but want her to let the thoughts of you two being together creep back into her mind. Just be friendly but not clingy. Reflecting on past things that you did when you were together is a great way to bring back the Chemistry. I always suggest doing things that you did as a couple to bring back the magic. Go to a place where you went with her when you were dating. This will remind her of why she liked you in the first place.
Don't Lie
Before you play with her emotions make sure that you want her back. If you want her for just sexual pleasure then I do not encourage you to try and win her back, but if you are sincere about this then be completely genuine. Don't put on a facade for her ever. You need to be completely yourself at all times. She is going to wonder what your intentions are every time she sees you so remember to just keep it cool and stay non threatening. She knows you well so don't try to fool her. If you had been with her for any amount of time she will be able to tell when you are faking so don't fake. If you can't handle that then you need to give yourself more time to recover.
Once again, Be Real
Make an honest effort to improve yourself. You need to become the person that she wants if it is a good thing. If you don't agree with her opinion then maybe its better that you move on. If you really want her back then you need to make strives to improve on whatever it was that you were lacking.
I would also suggest that you give her at least two weeks of space before you try to win her back. The reason for this is you need to get your motives completely right (i.e get your head on straight.)
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