How do I get my wife back and save my marriage?

Do you think that you're the only guy who has ever been dumped by their wife and wish that they could make up with them again? Well I guess that right at this moment in time you might be thinking exactly that.

You might also be thinking that you haven't got a chance of patching up your marriage and the whole thing is going to end in divorce and that will be that. If this is what you are thinking then you might just have taken the the first steps in getting your wife back. As strange as it seems - you have more chance of getting back with your ex once you've accepted that you're relationship is over.

Breaking up is the start of making up?

This doesn't sound right does it? How can breaking up be the start of making up? Well the statistics show that you have a much better chance of getting your wife to love you again if you've split up and shown her that you are strong enough to make it on your own. Give it 30 days before you approach her again and make sure you look after yourself and have a good time before you do.

Women like strong men

You see women don't like men who appear weak and when you start pleading for her to change her mind about breaking up, all you are doing is confirming what a weak man you are.

Have you ever noticed how women seem to go for men who treat them badly and shun the nice guys who would treat them like a goddess? It's been the story of my life, how about you?

So the first thing you should do to get your wife back is to tell her that you're cool with it and that you think the breakup is the best thing to do. This will be hard for you but remember you have to look strong and confident at this point.

Build your confidence ready for the makeup

Over the next 30 days pay attention to you. Look after your appearance, start talking to other women again. You know it surprised the hell out of me when I was in this position. I had no idea that I could talk to women and that they would talk back to me. I had to force myself to do it the first time but it works and the more and more you do it the easier it gets. It will work wonders for your confidence and self esteem.

When you are ready you should prepare yourself for making contact with your ex wife again but make sure you do it right. You can pick up some good books that will tell you exactly what you need to do and how to do it and I advise you to read them before you plan your comeback.