Stop hitting the wall! What you are doing is not working! If calling him at all hours hasn't worked by now, it won't ever. Yes. You miss him! The whole world (and he especially) already know you miss him and want him back. You (and he) are probably tired of this whole whiny, clingy new you. So, what can you do? The absolute unexpected! Nothing! I know you don't believe it, but your sudden loss of interest will peak his!

Yeah, you read that right! As off-course as that may sound, you must stop what you are currently doing. It should be apparent by now that what you have been doing... Is. Not. Working! Stop what you are doing, shock him absolutely and stop chasing after him. Now, do you have plenty of time on your hands! That is the great news. Now is the time to relax and think about what could have been done differently (read: better) in your relationship. A relationship is a partnership, remember there is plenty of blame to go around!

Stop gossiping about him. Stop asking all your friends about him. Start spending time with your family and friends to discover what you have been missing in their lives. Find new friends. Start experiencing your life as an individual. Give him plenty of space and time to become curious about his loss, you! He will start to wonder why you suddenly seemed to have 'lost' interest in him! Give him the opportunity to re discover you and why he fell for you in the first place.

His life will suddenly change! Something is definitely missing from his life, you. Maybe, he secretly liked all those desperate, late night phone calls. Now all that is gone. What happened? Did you fall off the face of the earth? No! You are taking steps toward building a better relationship with yourself (first) and then someone else. He will want to know the source of this sudden change.

Spoil yourself, for a change. Go shopping with the girls. Spend a day out at the spa. Learn some yoga. Visit local museums. Join a club. Learn a new language. Find ways to occupy your time that are interesting to you. In time, he may decide that your new interests are his too! He may very well become the one calling or e mailing you! BE BUSY when he calls! This advice may sound to high-schoolish, this secret WORKS! His appetite for you will be thoroughly whetted and he may just come knocking!