Have you gone through a break up recently and now know that your former lover was the one? Or maybe your wife/husband of 30 years has informed you that they would like to separate, or worse get a divorce. The world is collapsing all around you because the love of your life has rejected you and you do not know how to get them back. But there is a way to get your ex back by simply going on without them.

Never ask for forgiveness
This is the worst thing that you could ever do and it takes the power of the relationship out of your hands. You are acknowledging what that you where wrong and that you even knew it at the time. Remember that you have the power know that your ex has put the ball in your court.

Show your ex that there is a life after them
You ex is hoping that you will wither and die because they are no longer a part of your life. Showing them that you can have a good time with out them will make them think twice about ending the relationship.

Sometimes you need to treat a relationship like a mind game. Lovers and spouses like to know that they have the power to raise you up or let you down. Failing to acknowledge that power will go a lot farther during the ruff patches of the relationship more than you think. So get on out there and have some fun. Your ex will be back before you know it.