When a relationship ends, both parties normally think that everything is over. That can not be farther from the truth. In reality, the relationship ends when for parties do not want it to continue. this is a perfect time for you to take control of the situation and make your ex realize just what they gave up. After a few weeks, they should be crawling back to you asking for forgiveness.

• You need stay strong. You do not want your ex to see that you are taking the breakup hard. Your ex is thinking that he/she is the best thing that has happened to you and that you are not going to be able to function as a person without them in your life. Here is where you show them that you are a strong individual and that the opposite is true. The fact is that they made a mistake and will find it hard to go on with out you in their life.

• Go out with your friend and meet new people. Do not be afraid to get back out there and start mingling with other people again. You're not looking for a serious relationship. You just want your ex to see that you are putting yourself out there and are looking at your options. Your ex will get a little jealous seeing that you are already looking to date so quick after the breakup.

• Keep your schedule filled. If your ex calls, tell them that you have a date and are getting ready to leave. Or just don't pick up the phone. This will help their mind to start wondering where you might be and who you might be with.