Yes, it can happen. In fact, it does happen all the time. There's this girl you know that you really like and would like to have something going on between you and her. You dream about her, you have fantasies of the two of you together, you'd do anything to get her. It can be a painful process, especially if you know that your chances are slim and she's not giving you any attention.
Well, I am here to give you a reality check. NOTHING will happen if you go on acting the way you are acting. You are probably: a) putting her on a pedestal, making up a picture of her that probably is far from the truth b) giving away all your value and power - making her the rare and precious snowflake that has an abundance of men around her, and making yourself out to be common and ordinary.
Hollywood is wrong. Women do not like to be professed eternal love and caring. I mean, how many times in real life have you heard something like that even coming close to getting a girl interested? In my experience, it is a really, really rare occasion. And there's probably something wrong.
You must come to grips with the fact that women are not looking for affection. It might not seem that way if you look at all the couples around you. Yes, affection is the foundation upon which a long-term relationship stands. But long-term relationships most commonly do not start off as such. They start with a spark, something ignites certain feelings in a girl which makes her want to spend more time with a guy.
And if the guy is just another plain dude who secretly is in love with her and would do ANYTHING to get her,then guess what - THAT is not going to spark the attraction.
By our nature we are still half animals, half humans. Instead of one brain, we have two - the rational and emotional (animal) brains. Instead of our brains controlling our bodies, a lot of times our bodies control our brains instead. And that's what happens with girls - there's still this animal side inside of her and she is attracted by almost the same things that she was attracted to 10,000 years ago. We humans haven't changed much since that time.
Women respond very strongly to DOMINANT, POWERFUL men. They also respond to men that already have women in their life. This is key.
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-Joshua Egidio
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