Are you trying to get back with your ex girlfriend? If you do, you must understand that this can be quite a delicate situation. This is because both of you may feel hurt. Therefore, it is even more important for you to do things with caution so as to avoid hurting each other even more.

Here are 5 things you should seriously consider when trying to get back with your ex girlfriend.

1) First, you need to figure out the reasons that resulted in the break up. People do not break up just because they want to break up. There must be a reason or two and it is up to you to find out. Once you figured out the underlying problems that resulted in your break up, it is time to think about whether you can fix the problems.

2) Is the break up solely your fault? Hopefully not. However, if it is, then you need to take responsibility for your mistakes. Let your girlfriend know that you have regretted. When appropriate, make a sincere apology.

3) Do not lock yourself in your house. You probably feel a bit depressed now and want to cut yourself off from the rest of the world. Do not do that. You do not want to give your girlfriend the impression that you could not handle your emotions well. Show your girlfriend that you are a matured person who knows how to handle any situation.

4) You may want to give your ex girlfriend the impression that you have already moved on yet you are still concern about her. This can be a great way to bring both of you back together eventually. The idea here is to show her that you still have feelings for her but you are not desperate about it. This makes you appear more desirable.

5) Last but not least, try to remain as friend. You may have hurt her or she may have hurt you and it might take some time for both of you to get back together again. However, that doesn't mean you can't be friends for the time being. From there, you can slowly work on getting back together.