Going through a breakup is never easy. When you have been with a girl for a long time, she becomes a part of your day to day life. Nothing seems the same and your day is filled with reminders of things you used to do together. If you want to win her back, you can learn how to get back together with a girl.

The first thing you need to do is the hardest. You need to tell her that you have been thinking about it and you agree with the breakup. Tell her she is right and you are glad that you are taking a break. Do not do this in an upset, emotional or sarcastic tone. Be honest. Keep it short and polite. End the conversation early and do not call her back for a while. Do not text her or email her either. You need to cut off all conversation for a while. Do not worry, this part does not last forever.

During this time, you need to think of new ways to occupy your time. Do positive things. Join a gym. Start a running or walking program. Spend time with friends and family. Do not make up reasons to contact your ex. This is very important for the success of your attempt to get her back.

Your friends and family will try to offer you advice. Stick to this program. It has worked for thousands of people, allowing them to reunite with their ex.

This is the first part of your 'how to get back together with a girl" plan.