I know it's tempting to go running to your ex and beg them for forgiveness and explain to them over and over again that you should be together, but it's not working. Stop pondering the ways, "how to get back my ex" and just pay attention. It probably took your relationship ending for you to realize that it's time for a change. Obviously whatever you were doing wasn't working, now you're upset and desperate, and you want your old life back.

You're not alone, this happens to just about all of us at one point or another. The good news is that about 90% of all breakups can be reversed, it's just that people don't bother to put in the effort and do it right. There are some things you need to do if you really want to know how to get your ex back...

Number One-- Don't be a stalker. Calling your ex constantly, all day, everyday isn't going to help your cause. The more desperate you seem the less they're going to want you. So the key is to drop all contact with them.

Number Two-- While you're freaking out because you want to call them so bad, take a minute to figure out how you ended up this way. Was it one event or several that lead to your breakup? What can you do differently in the future to avoid the same problems?

Number Three-- Communication! It's time to start talking to your ex again, but restrain yourself this isn't about the "relationship."

When you talk to your ex again it's like starting all over, you don't want to bring up anything about breaking up or getting back together. The more calm and relaxed you are the better your odds at getting through to your ex. You don't want to tell your ex you're a better person, you want to show them with your actions.