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How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead!
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Steffi Hall
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When things get pretty complicated now that you've developed feelings for your best friend, it's time to get things straightened up. First of all, being in love with your best friend is not something you're supposed to be so bummed about. Secondly, the more you try to keep something as complicated as long stored up inside, it's going to make things worse. That's why it's start to let it show. Let if flow! Love should be celebrated, not suppressed. So below are a few tips on how to deal when you get attracted with your best friend --- find ways to make her love you instead!
- Don't spoil it. Don't go running to her telling you what a jerk you are for actually falling for her. Don't spill it right away or out of sheer panic --- it'll mess things up all the more. Just take it easy and no drastic decisions for now --- continue being friend for now but don't put too much pressure on yourself just yet. One step at a time.
- Savor the moment. When you're together, don't feel all guilty because you just touched her hand or held her in your arms even for just a brief moment. It's not being a pervert, believe me. It's called keeping your call. You will have to confess your feelings to her sooner or later.
- Get protective and possessive. When she mentions other guys or if she's going out with some boy she met, go right ahead and act a little jealous. You may have never done it before and it seems weird but it's a great way to show her that you have tender feelings for her and it's natural to feel protective and possessive.
- Ask her out for a date. Maybe all you do is hangout and just kill time away --- why not upgrade your little session but asking her out in a real date at last --- just the two of you. And make sure to make it clear enough --- it's a date, not your usual hangout thing.
- Make her read between the lines. Drop hints --- of course, we will surely get to the part where you have to confess your feelings but for now, send a few mixed signals and flirt with her --- it's one way of having fun and making her realize inch by inch that you're into her. We can never know --- she might just be feeling the same thing for you all along.
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Article Submitted On: October 29, 2009
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Hall, Steffi "How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead!." How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead!. 29 Oct. 2009 EzineArticles.com. 21 Nov. 2009 <http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Deal-When-You-Get-Attracted-With-Your-Best-Friend?-5-Ways-to-Be-Her-Lover-Instead!&id=3173472>.
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Hall, S. (2009, October 29). How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead!. Retrieved November 21, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Deal-When-You-Get-Attracted-With-Your-Best-Friend?-5-Ways-to-Be-Her-Lover-Instead!&id=3173472
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Hall, Steffi "How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead!." How to Deal When You Get Attracted With Your Best Friend? 5 Ways to Be Her Lover Instead! EzineArticles.com. http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Deal-When-You-Get-Attracted-With-Your-Best-Friend?-5-Ways-to-Be-Her-Lover-Instead!&id=3173472